First Time In A Gay Sauna…
The week and all the work I’ve done has worn me out quite a bit. Since one month I’ve taken on a temporary position as a fundraise-team-leader for Unicef. Very fulfilling work, yet it takes up full days and leaves me quite exhausted.
My team and I use door-to-door fundraising to recruit new donors and sponsors. It’s been going extremely well and we have almost broken some records!
So, on a Friday night, after a 12 hour shift, I decide to gift myself a sauna night. The only saunas open till midnight or later were gay saunas. With a nervous heart, a tired body and a childlike curiosity, I walk into that very normal business building at the center of Zürich City.
As I walk up the stairs my skepticism grew. Imagine yourself walking up the stairs in a business complex. All I saw were offices of lawyers and real estate agents.
Suddenly one door appears to my right. It’s labelled with “Paragonya Wellness Club”, which was the one I found on Google Maps just minutes ago.
My finger glides over the doorbell and immediately after a buzzing sound notified me that the door unlock locked and I was welcome to enter.
I open the door and my breath stops…
Over 20 pairs of male eyes starred at me! Their bodies simply covered by small blue towels. A bar-like entrance awaited me. In surprise I voice a little giggle-like laughter and immediately made my way to the bartender, who handed me a locker key and a blue towel, acting as if I knew what was going on and where to go.
After I made it clear to him that I have no clue where to go and what there is available, he offered me a little tour and so I get to understand that the sauna and steam-sauna aren’t the main attraction here.
Cabinet, dark rooms, make-out pools, and even a dark labyrinth was built into the wellness club!
As I made my way through the 1st floor and relaxed myself in the sauna, cold-plunge and steam-sauna, I couldn’t help myself but thinking “where the heck is my camera team!?”.
Walking through the club, chatting with some other visitors, both young and older, I all of the sudden realize that most of these youngsters are there offering themselves as escorts!
My jaw dropped even deeper! Never in the world would I have expected to land in a wellness-brothel! The smile on my face got bigger and bigger, so did my heartbeat become faster and faster, as I courageously made my way upstairs towards all the dark rooms and cabins.
Another surprise awaited me up there. One I would have never dared to think of.
3 men, one of them clearly a professional escort, the others visitors and occasional clients, sat there and were talking loudly in laughter!
My mind was already prepared to see the most crazy sexplays, so in fact I was quite happy to just find a group of men chatting and laughing.
I sat down with them, joined the conversation and in less than 2 minutes everyone was clarifying my “role” here in the wellness club.
Was I a client or an escort. And if neither of both, what the heck am I doing up here?!
The moment I voiced what I do as a tantra facilitator, breathwork and yoga teacher, the youngest of them, whose name is Jake and was working there as an escort, invited me and the other 2 into a cabin with the intent to learn about breathwork.
He took me by the hand (at this stage in our conversation I admit that I found his personality and physicality very attractive) and walked me and the other 2 into a cabin, covered the bed with fresh towels and then asked me to let them experience their breath.
So I did. I stood there with 3 naked men laying in front of me, face and dicks up, and I gave them the breath of their lives!
After their breath journey, Jake asked me to also show them how to perform a tantra massage. So I started round 2 of the lesson with them. 30 minutes later we covered the back and ass parts with just some simple basics. And at that stage, I was the only one who hasn’t been massaged yet at all!
With that dragon spark in my eyes, I spoke the words “And now it’s time to show me what you learned, Jake!”.
Of course I wanted him to massage me! One of the others left since it was to warm in that room for him, the other one stayed and watched how I received a wonderful back and ass massage.
Just to clarify, ass cheeks only was the instruction… Well to me that was more clear than to Jake.
The experience ends with Jake and I sharing the cabin. Massaging each other gently, getting more warmed up and there I was, sharing a cabin with an escort in mutual agreement, and after that great breathwork and massage session, this became a very loving experience.
What was the lesson here (again)? Leaning into the discomfort and allowing adventure to take me to exactly where I am supposed to be.
Curious to hear about your first gay sauna experiences? Let me know down in the comments…
Sending warm Dragon Love,
Mo
