Are You Available For Love?
In an environment where sex and sexual expression is treated far from sacred, being exposed to all those visualized fantasies creates a vortex of craving and seeking.
Craving means we WANT or WISH FOR something or someone that’s not available, or at lest not consistently.
When we consume pornographic content on a daily, it programs our mind to be driven by lust. And that is a mindset that comes from “I lack, so I will crave.”
It might not seem like a big deal to you, since you have gotten quite used to it already. But let me pull your awareness to what it actually does: It makes you unable to receive and open up to true Love.
WHY THAT??!
It’s quite simple. Whey you enter a relationship or multiple (that includes someone you just have casual sex with), and you base your behaviors towards them on Lust & Desire, they become a placeholder for what you seek to truly feel and experience.
Sex with a fuck buddy or a casual lover always pleases us short-term, hence we seek more of it. Or once it gets routined, we seek something or someone different.
Here again, you spin in the loop of your Desires, and that sadly never leads to true fulfillment.
And that also becomes a breeding ground for toxic relationships and narcissism, meaning you are mainly in the relationship to fill your lacks with someone else’s presence or attention.
Honestly, that isn’t adult behavior, as adulthood to me means growing into a self-responsible, kind-hearted and compassionate version of yourself.
So please keep that in mind as you scroll along social media platforms like X (Twitter) for. And if you are someone that keeps attracting the wrong guys, or spirals in these toxic relationships, it’s time to have a closer look within to re-calibrate what makes you attract all the drama!
Join me and a group of courageous gays & queers to break the habit of operating based on your Desires, I’ve got a new group-coaching program coming up… Just say something in the comments and I’ll send you the details.
With 🌺 Love,
Jun / Mo
